Monday, July 25, 2016

Pearls of Wisdom from the oyster called Life
 Out Now!

Greetings beloved friends, I am very happy to announce that my book 'Pearls of Wisdom from the oyster called Life' has finally been realized, after being abandoned for almost 5yrs due to a first failed attempt, when I went through a self publishing company who produced a book of a quality I was not happy to put my name to!
I'm happy to say that my new version is exactly what I had pictured it to be, It's bright and colourful and the photo quality is superb. I was able to produce it on my own, once I found my self belief!
This book is about empowerment and I pray that the pearls empower all who read them to find their self love, self belief and own their power but do so with love!
Love is the answer...always, in every situation!

A beautiful coffee table book that is a pleasure to view, with beautiful glossy flower macros and pearls of wisdom which are food for thought!

It makes a great gift for that special someone when you don't know what to buy them!
With Love, Light & Gratitude!

Monday, February 23, 2015


No matter what curveball life throws at you, you have can catch it, run from it...or hit that sucker into the never never.
There comes a time in our lives when we feel trapped, there's no way out, no matter how hard we try to get out of a situation we're not happy in, we just can't seem to find a way out.
I have been in situations like that and what I have learned is, we always have choices, always!
When we believe we don't have choices, it's usually a FEAR based belief. We have been conditioned throughout our lives to believe that we're hopeless, we couldn't possibly survive on our own. The truth are capable of anything you put your mind to...anything!
You are created with all the tools you need for survival, compacted deep within, that is why it's important to meditate, to go within, because through such practices, you will gain a strength you didn't know you  had.
 I can tell you from experience that if you're not happy in a current situation, it's because it's not healthy for you so take some time out to analyse it and see what it is you're not happy with...then see what you could do to improve could be something as simple as changing how you view it, you could start with something as simple as finding the blessings in your current situation. It's amazing how, when we find blessings in what we have, we start to see more blessings.
You could also start by changing your routine, act spontaneously whenever possible i.e. you feel like taking a walk, just do it, don't let your brain tell you, you can't because you have too much to do etc.
When you do things spontaneously on a regular basis, you start to trust your intuition and when you start to trust your intuition, you will become equipped to take on all of life's adventures!
We have been built with an internal gage in order to KNOW when something is not for our highest good...that gage is the happiness gage, if you're not happy it is your Soul telling you this situation is not healthy for you so you must change's all up to you. You are the author of your story, if you don't like the story you're in, write a new one. It is important you don't become stuck in your current story or you will become the victim of your own story. 
Go within, do some meditation and if you do so on a regular basis you will come to trust your inner voice because your inner voice, always tells you what is for your highest good.
If you are in one of these situations where you feel helpless, feel free to email me and hopefully I may be able to give you some guidance.
Wishing everyone freedom to be happy!
With Love Light and Gratitude

Friday, September 12, 2014

Pearl of the Day

We have been brought up to believe that, if we make lots of money we will be successful. I have come to realize more and more, that success is really more about the sort of person one is or becomes, than the amount of money they make.
Success is up to the individual to judge, but to me...success is more about how many lives we enrich. Many people run big companies and are very successful financially but at the detriment of their staff. I admire and call successful, those people that run their business in a morally correct way and treat their staff with the love and respect they deserve.
We all co-exist together on this planet therefore it's important to enrich other peoples' lives by treating them with love and respect.
I often get people saying to me "that's all well and good but what about when people don't treat me that way?" I will respond, as I did to a lady the other day, by saying "I live by my motto others treat me is indicative of who they I treat them is indicative of who I am, therefore I always choose to treat everyone with the same love and respect that I wish to be treated with, regardless of how they treat me!" 
I don't believe this is "letting people walk all over me" as some people have told me...but I see this as being true to my values. I see this as a strength not a weakness because it takes more strength to treat another with love and respect, despite their treatment of me.
I would be interested to know what you think.
With Love Light and much Gratitude

Tuesday, August 19, 2014


One flame alone doesn't burn too bright but many flames united, can light up the night.

Sometimes we feel that we aren't important enough...we say things like "I'm just a housewife!" 
I am guilty of making such statements, especially during those times when I wasn't working. 
I have now come to see that, raising four children, almost single handed, was certainly not being "just a housewife".
My husband left for work at 7:30am and was home by 4pm, at which time he would have a shower and sit and relax for the rest of the day. 
My day started at 7am and didn't finish until 9:30pm, this is not counting the times I was up during the night when the children were ill or if they needed something.
I never thought I was important, after all I was just a housewife with no degree. 
We were brought up to believe, the husband is important because he goes to work and pays the bills. 
We were also brought up to believe that  people with degrees, are important. 
This has been our conditioning.
I can tell you now, we are ALL important...we may all be ONE flame and think, one flame alone doesn't burn too bright but have you ever lit one candle, then another, then another and so on?
With every candle you light, the dark slowly becomes brighter and brighter and if you light a room full of candles, that room will eventually be, totally lit up.
You may be one flame but you are an important flame...never, ever underestimate your importance in this beautiful planet of ours!
Be a light for those in darkness...shine your light and do so with gusto!
With Love, Light and Gratitude

Monday, August 11, 2014

PEARL of the DAY

Roses and Thorns go hand in's your choice on which you wish to place your attention!

The thorns in life can't be avoided but you can, avoid placing your attention on them and place your attention on the roses instead.
A perfect example of this is...those days when something goes wrong first thing in the morning and then it seems that the whole day goes downhill from there. The reason for this is because, when something happens, we tend to keep thinking about that mishap and we end up blowing it all, out of proportions, in our minds.
If this happens to you, take a deep, slow breath, calm yourself down and think of something worse that could have happened instead and then give thanks, that it wasn't that.
We can control our thoughts, so if a thought comes up, that you know is going to lead you toward a landslide...stop it in it's tracks.
 What I do when a (wrong) thought comes up, I say "no no no, not going there" and I shoo it away and replace it with a more positive one.
You have choose your thoughts...choose to place your attention on the roses, in your life and not the thorns!
Always remember gratitude...give thanks for the roses, on a daily basis and you will see more of them bloom!
With Love Light and Gratitude

Monday, July 28, 2014

Pearl of the Day

Treat everyone at though today is their last day on Earth...and you will never have any regrets.

This is something I live by every day of my life. I have been very lucky, to mostly encounter really lovely people. I could put it down to luck but I truly believe it's because I always treat everyone I meet, with the highest respect...I am open with them and honest but always in a loving way.
When I hear people tell me about nasty people they encountered during their day, whether sales assistants or customers etc., I always wonder if they took the time to do or say something kind to them, to turn them around.
Don't get me wrong, I encounter, not so nice, sales assistants too but what I do, is try to understand what kind of day the may have had and what type of customers they may have served before me. Quite often they themselves have had dealings with nasty customers and have been rattled by them.
When I am served by such a sales assistant, I ask them how they are (even if they don't ask me) and try to take an interest in them...I believe, if we all do this, it would make this world a much happier place to live in...and besides...wouldn't you enjoy your day more, knowing you've helped elevate someone's mood? I know I do...I feel great when I see that I have lifted someone up.
Having worked in customer service jobs, I cannot remember, ever having a customer, not matter how nasty they were, that I didn't win over with some love and attention.
When you go out next, set the intention to smile and be kind to everyone you meet and watch what happens. If someone isn't kind back, be extra kind to them, you will win them over. Just remember, all people want, is what we all be loved and acknowledged. 
With Love Light and Gratitude

Friday, July 18, 2014

Pearl of the Day

"When you can't change the things out of your control...change the ones you can, in order to bring you greater happiness."

If life has become a bit too predictable and routine and for one reason or another, you can't change circumstances that seem out of your control...change the ones you can, in order to bring yourself greater happiness.
Look around you, what things can you change? Start by being spontaneous, do something that you would not normally do. When driving to work or picking up your children etc., change routes, take a different road, mix things up a little, it makes life more interesting.
Learn something new...take up a anything creative. Doing creative things, makes the Soul Soar!

I don't have a routine and I rarely make plans...and even when I do, it's only if it involves someone else i.e. a friend wants to meet for a coffee Monday next week etc....even then, I always leave off with, "that should be ok but I'll confirm it with you a day or so before"

I always try to mix things up...I let the powers that be, dictate my day for me and they never fail to surprise me.

Do what you can to be happy because when you're happy, you give those around you permission to be happy too!

With Love Light and Gratitude